Questions to Consider
Do you feel diminished and unappreciated?
Are you arguing way too frequently?
Are you in a transitional stage in your life?
Would you like to strengthen your parental skills?
Is your partner or spouse compulsive or addicted?
(infidelity, affair, porn, strip club, escort, alcohol?)
Would you like to meet that ideal mate?
Are you stressed by financial burdens?
Do you think your spouse is having an affair?
If your answer is yes to any of
these questions, then Hedy Tan can
help you firstname.lastname@example.org
I help women to gain confidence, set effective limits, gain clarity and to have their own back. I teach women to get out of the extremes and to stop settling for less simply because they’re too afraid to ask for more, don’t think they’ll get more, or are too tired to try for more.
I use a dynamic approach based on the integration of Terrance Real’s Relational Life Therapy Model, Pia Mellody’s Post Induction Model and Patrick Carnes' Addiction Model.
Too many people go into dating for the wrong reasons which can set them up for years or even a lifetime of misery. Some common unhealthy reasons include:
If you're looking for someone else to fix your life, you're in trouble. Instead of looking to others to "complete you", give meaning to you or give you a sense of worth, look to yourself to own your worth (you have it--it's a given). Only when you're comfortable in your own skin, like who you are and don't "need" anyone to make you feel okay, will you be in a great place to find someone good for you. The healthier you are, the healthier the people will be who you attract.
Challenge: Be certain you're going into the dating world with nothing to prove and no desperation to find someone.
Strengthen your inner core first (Inherent Worth) and you will raise the bar on the quality of dates you attract later.