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Relational Life Therapy (RLT) with Hedy Tan -Understanding RLT

Relational Life Therapy (RLT) emphasizes the significance of interpersonal relationships and how early connections with caregivers shape our attachment styles and patterns of relating to ourselves and others.

This approach differs from traditional talk therapy and standard marriage counseling by focusing on relational discovery.

RLT helps uncover unconscious patterns that keep couples stuck, delving into the roots of these dynamics to address the heart of the matter.

​Hedy Tan’s Expertise
  • Enmeshment Preferred Provider: Hedy is trained to support individuals dealing with enmeshment issues under the guidance of Ken Adams (IITAP).
  • Certifications: Hedy is a Certified Life Coach (ICF) and a Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor (CADC) through IODAPCA in the State of Illinois.
  • Specialization: Hedy’s practice focuses on couples using RLT, as well as individuals and couples affected by addictions or betrayal trauma.
LocationsHedy maintains offices in:
  • Chicago, Illinois (60610)
  • Valparaiso, Indiana (46385)
Hedy Tan, CADC, CLC, PIT, ASAT, AMAT, APTT, Enmeshment Preferred Provider - Ken Adams, CCRBT inn training

Chicago, Illinois, and Valparaiso, Indiana

With over 35 years of experience, Hedy Tan has dedicated her career to helping individuals and couples overcome barriers to achieve fulfilling lives.
She began her journey in 1986, working with alcoholics, drug addicts, and their partners, and has since specialized in trauma-informed treatment.
Specializations and Certifications
  • Trauma Focus: Recognizing the significant impact of childhood trauma on addiction, Hedy sought extensive training in trauma-based therapies. She has completed Pia Mellody's Post Induction Training (PIT) three times over 15 years and has trained in her model of developmental immaturity. Hedy regularly participates in case consultations with Pia Mellody, author of Facing Love Addiction, Facing Codependence, and The Intimacy Factor.
  • Addiction Therapy: Hedy earned her certification in Sex Addiction (CSAT) from Patrick Carnes, PhD, in 2000 and has updated her training through IITAP (ASAT). In 2013, she became a certified Multiple Addiction Therapist (AMAT) and has also completed training as a Partner Trauma Therapist. Currently, she is pursuing certification as a Couples Betrayal Recovery Therapist with IITAP.
  • Relational Life Therapy: Over the past 15 years, Hedy has deepened her work with couples through Terry Real's Relational Life Institute (RLI). She is an RLI Facilitator, Bootcamp Leader, and Certified Couples Therapist. RLT is an evidence-based approach supported by neuroscience, designed to enhance relational health.
Hedy’s comprehensive training and experience allow her to provide targeted support for individuals and couples dealing with trauma, addiction, and relationship challenges.
​Her commitment to ongoing professional development ensures that she remains at the forefront of therapeutic practices.
If you’re ready to explore your path to healing and growth, Hedy is here to support you every step of the way.
River North, Chicago
Valparaiso, Indiana
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