RELATIONAL LIFE INSTITUTE MODEL - WE WALK ALONG SIDE YOU AND HELP YOU HAVE A CONSCIOUS RELATIONSHIP
Hedy Tan - Master Certified with Relational Life Institute - Boston (Terry Real)
Certified with International Institute for Trauma and Addictions Professionals (Patrick Carnes)
Post Induction Therapy trained - The Meadows (Pia Mellody)
Completed IMAGO Couple's Retreat
Completed Couple's Boundary Training - International Institute of Trauma and Addictions Professionals (Pat Love)
Completed Money and Work Adaptive Styles Index Training - International Institute of Trauma and Addictions Professionals (Bonnie Dendooven)
Completed 'We Came to Believe' Retreat Facilitator training - for recovering couples (Patrick Carnes)
Completed Inner Child, Feeling Reduction and Couple's Experiential Intensives - Pia Mellody (The Meadows)
CHICAGO, EVANSTON, OAK PARK
"Couples work best when it focuses on the systemic interactions between partners" - Diane Gehart
— that is, how the relationship dynamics are perpetuating patterns that are driving them apart and what positive steps each person can take to change them.
"You learn to treat the system, not the symptom," - Pat Love, an Austin, Texas-based author of several relationship books. "If you don't pay attention to the system, one person will feel left out and reactive."
So in the classic case of the stoic husband and emotional wife, good couples professionals might identify how his indifference is driving her panic, and vice versa, so both can make changes and neither shoulders all the blame
Come in and learn how your 'stance-stance'dance' (Terry Real) is affecting your marriage and be empowerment for change towards reconnection.
Established in 1987.
For close to 30 years Hedy Tan has empowered individuals and couples who are ready and motivated, to reach their fullest potential beginning with the self - recognizing and overcoming the barriers that hold you back.
Once you've established that and you continue to be truly ready, you can move on to achieve your biggest dreams and goals...in your Self, Career, Couple ship, Parenting, Dating, Balance, Meet that ideal mate, and much more.
Hedy Tan is Master Certified Relational Life Couple's Professional (Relational Life Institute); The Meadows' Post Induction Therapy; Patrick Carnes' IITAP certified in Sex Addiction / Money and Financial Disorders; and IMAGO trained professional in the Chicago land area.
Couples; Relationships; Marital; Emotional / Physical Affairs, Addiction Recovery, Substance Abuse, Infidelity, Rehabilitate, Sobriety, Anger Management, Twelve Step Support, Dating, Leadership Development / Executive, Communication; Porn / Work compulsivity /addiction; Partner / Spouse of SA; Love addiction / Love avoidance; Women's Group, Financial Disorder, Anger / Rage; Boundaries; Parenting; CC debt; Spending / Debting; Gambling; Retirement; Codependency; Childhood Trauma; Healing, Job Search; Transition, Grief, Loss, Baby Boomer,
Certified Life Coach (Life Coach Institute; ICF)
Certified Master Level Relational Life Institute - Boston (Terry Real)
Certified in addiction (IITAP - Patrick Carnes)
Certified in Work and Money disorders (IITAP - Bonnie Van Den Dooven)
Certified by (IODAPCA)
COUPLE'S BOUNDARY TRAINING - IITAP (Pat Love)
PIT trained since 1999 - Pia Mellody - The Meadows
Hedy's training includes Pia Mellody's Post Induction Training (THE MEADOWS), Inner Child and Feeling Reduction Workshops as well as Harville Hendrix 'Getting the Love You Want'.
Hedy uses Pia’s model of “Developmental Immaturity” and her premise “that childhood trauma (abandonment, neglect, enmeshment, abuse) is the origin of developmental immaturity”.
Childhood Trauma = Relational Trauma
Member: IITAP, NAADAC, IAODAPCA, RLI, ICF, Healing Trauma Network.