River North, Chicago · Valparaiso, Indiana
NO CONTACT - IN-PERSON MEETINGS AVAILABLE · COUPLES INTENSIVES OFFERED
PRIVATE COUPLES ESSENTIAL SKILLS BOOTCAMP AVAILABLE UPON REQUEST
PRIVATE COUPLES ESSENTIAL SKILLS BOOTCAMP AVAILABLE UPON REQUEST
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Illinois
Hedy Tan· PIT, CLC, ASAT, AMAT, CADC, APTT; RLI Facilitator Indiana Hedy Tan · PIT, CLC, ASAT, AMAT, CADC, APTT; RLI Facilitator+ Hedy Tan is a RLI Facilitator and RLI Bootcamp Leader in private practice. The guidelines I use are highly effective and relational. I offer you relational, communicative, boundaried and fierce intimacy skills and tools that can produce positive results quickly. I'll guide you through your conflicts, encourage you to avoid repeating negative patterns, and empower you to break your toxic stances. I'll walk alongside you so that you may enjoy full respect living and design a healthy life legacy to pass on to your children. You will learn that it isn't so much about the content of the issues as it is about the dynamic, the dance between the two of you. We will identify the unique vicious cycle that has captured you - in RLT language, your 'bad deal.' Living Relationally - The result is renewed hope, sanity and calmness: the lifeline to happy, joyful and fulfilling relationships. |
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In 2000, Hedy received her certification in Sex Addiction under the auspices of Patrick Carnes, PhD. Hedy has continued her training in sex addiction with IITAP. In 2013 Hedy received her certification in Money & Financial Disorders with IITAP.
In 2017 Hedy received her certification in Partner Betrayal Trauma with IITAP Over the past 20 years Hedy has deepened her work with couples by achieving RLI Facilitator and RLI Bootcamp Leader by Terry Real's Relational Life Institute. Hedy uses Relational Life Therapy's approach of "joining through the truth" and "Intimacy equals Truth and Love," specifically designed for couples. This transformative model developed by Terry Real, LCSW and Author, called Relational Life Therapy (RLT), is effective with all relationships be it with one's self, couples, parent-child, peers or work. |
Hedy has worked 30+ years with individuals and couples, helping them overcome barriers to achieving the life they want to live. Hedy began her work in 1986 working with alcoholics / addicts and their partners.
In 1999, after realizing that childhood trauma is at the root of most addictions, Hedy focused on receiving training and certifications in trauma-based treatment. Hedy has completed Pia Melody's Post Induction Trainings three separate times over the past 20 years. Hedy trained in Pia's model of "Developmental Immaturity" and her premise "that childhood trauma is the origin of developmental immaturity". Hedy has completed all four levels of the trainings offered by Pia Mellody, and participated regularly in case consultations. |
