***JUNE 9-15 ZOOM MEETINGS ONLY - THANK YOU***
River North, Chicago and Valparaiso, Indiana
IN PERSON OR VIRTUAL
RLT highly recommends a couple to take an RLT ESSENTIAL SKILLS Bootcamp before starting couples therapy!
PRIVATE COUPLE'S SESSION:
$450/110 minutes
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Are you doing everything and your partner is doing nothing? Have you lost yourself, your voice, and/or your confidence?
Are you tired of trying to get through to your partner? Do you feel like nothing works, no matter what you try?
Do you feel stuck and unclear about what to do?
Are you tired of trying to get through to your partner? Do you feel like nothing works, no matter what you try?
Do you feel stuck and unclear about what to do?
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RLT highly recommends a couple to take an RLT Bootcamp before starting couples therapy!
Other consideration is a four or seven hour INTENSIVE.
Longer sessions are vital in allowing the work to go deeper
Relational Life Solutions has found that the traditional 50-minute hour session is ineffective and makes progress slow going.
To schedule an Intensive:
1.Email with your date / time preferences: [email protected]
OR
2. Book here through Calendly.
Find 2 back to back 110 min sessions, add a note: "we're scheduling an Intensive"
***50% deposit due upon booking your intensive***
Full payment 14 days prior to your intensive date.
Other consideration is a four or seven hour INTENSIVE.
Longer sessions are vital in allowing the work to go deeper
Relational Life Solutions has found that the traditional 50-minute hour session is ineffective and makes progress slow going.
To schedule an Intensive:
1.Email with your date / time preferences: [email protected]
OR
2. Book here through Calendly.
Find 2 back to back 110 min sessions, add a note: "we're scheduling an Intensive"
***50% deposit due upon booking your intensive***
Full payment 14 days prior to your intensive date.
COUPLES
You deserve to feel accepted, understood, and cherished in your relationship.
Whether you're facing the brink of divorce, navigating an affair, or simply feeling overwhelmed, there is hope and a clear path forward to improve your situation.
In our sessions, I take an interactive, directive approach. I won’t just sit back and listen—I’ll work closely with you to pinpoint what’s keeping you stuck and outline specific steps for change. While some feedback may be challenging to hear, it’s essential for fostering lasting change and creating a more cohesive, joyful connection in your relationship.
Your commitment to yourself and your partnership is key to achieving meaningful results. Many individuals have tried multiple therapists before finding the right fit, and I’m here to help you create the relationship you desire. Together, we can make it happen.
If, however, you prefer a a 110 minute session, please schedule that yourself online for a date convenient for you.
Once you book an appointment, my professional time is reserved specifically for you. Therefore, I have a 48-hour cancellation policy. If you need to cancel or reschedule, please notify me as soon as possible. Cancellations made at least 48 hours in advance will not incur a charge. Thank you for your understanding!
Thank you for respecting my 48-hour cancellation policy. Your understanding helps ensure that we can provide the best possible care for all clients. If you have any questions or need assistance, feel free to reach out!
*****Time STARTS at Appointment time, NOT at Arrival time*****
THE COUPLE'S EXPERIENCE
After your intensive session, RLT recommends that couples commit to weekly meetings for four months. During this time, you’ll study the RLT approach through books, audio, videos, and assigned exercises. Practicing the relational guidelines and tools consistently can lead to significant improvements, provided both partners are dedicated to enhancing their relationship.
While every situation is unique and there are no guarantees, I typically help couples make substantial progress in eight longer sessions. Once you’re on the right track, many couples choose to continue meeting but space out their sessions further.
Working with couples in longer sessions has proven to be incredibly effective. Unlike the traditional 50-minute sessions many professionals use, I focus on 100-minute sessions at a minimum. With my extensive training and experience in RLT, I recognize that working with couples requires a different approach than individual therapy, and these longer sessions allow for deeper exploration and meaningful growth.
There is certainly no guarantee as every situation is different, but I can usually help couples make a lot of progress in 8 longer sessions. Once couples are on the right track, they often choose to continue meeting, but can space out the sessions even more.
Working with couples for longer sessions has been incredibly helpful. Most professionals try to work with couples in the usual 50-minute sessions every week. I have had extensive training and experience in RLT couples' relational skills and know that working with couples is very different than working with individuals. For that reason, I work in 100-minute sessions at a minimum.
Hedy Tan
CADC, CLC, PIT, ASAT, AMAT, APTT
RLT Certified Couples Therapist | RLT Facilitator | RLT Bootcamp Leader
Enmeshment Preferred Provider with Ken Adams (IITAP) | CCBRT Candidate - IITAP
I respond to requests for scheduling or rescheduling appointments as quickly as possible. Please save any therapeutic questions for our next session; I may not respond to all messages of that nature. I do read each message and keep track of questions and themes for our discussions. Please note that I do not provide 24-hour support or emergency crisis services. In case of an emergency, please call 911. Thank you for your understanding!
BACK BY POPULAR REQUESTS
2 DAY FOO TRAUMA WORKSHOP FOR COUPLES
based on the treatmemt model developed by Pia Mellody
"Survivors"
$3800 per couple $1900 per individual (minimum 2)
You deserve to feel accepted, understood, and cherished in your relationship.
Whether you're facing the brink of divorce, navigating an affair, or simply feeling overwhelmed, there is hope and a clear path forward to improve your situation.
In our sessions, I take an interactive, directive approach. I won’t just sit back and listen—I’ll work closely with you to pinpoint what’s keeping you stuck and outline specific steps for change. While some feedback may be challenging to hear, it’s essential for fostering lasting change and creating a more cohesive, joyful connection in your relationship.
Your commitment to yourself and your partnership is key to achieving meaningful results. Many individuals have tried multiple therapists before finding the right fit, and I’m here to help you create the relationship you desire. Together, we can make it happen.
If, however, you prefer a a 110 minute session, please schedule that yourself online for a date convenient for you.
Once you book an appointment, my professional time is reserved specifically for you. Therefore, I have a 48-hour cancellation policy. If you need to cancel or reschedule, please notify me as soon as possible. Cancellations made at least 48 hours in advance will not incur a charge. Thank you for your understanding!
Thank you for respecting my 48-hour cancellation policy. Your understanding helps ensure that we can provide the best possible care for all clients. If you have any questions or need assistance, feel free to reach out!
*****Time STARTS at Appointment time, NOT at Arrival time*****
THE COUPLE'S EXPERIENCE
After your intensive session, RLT recommends that couples commit to weekly meetings for four months. During this time, you’ll study the RLT approach through books, audio, videos, and assigned exercises. Practicing the relational guidelines and tools consistently can lead to significant improvements, provided both partners are dedicated to enhancing their relationship.
While every situation is unique and there are no guarantees, I typically help couples make substantial progress in eight longer sessions. Once you’re on the right track, many couples choose to continue meeting but space out their sessions further.
Working with couples in longer sessions has proven to be incredibly effective. Unlike the traditional 50-minute sessions many professionals use, I focus on 100-minute sessions at a minimum. With my extensive training and experience in RLT, I recognize that working with couples requires a different approach than individual therapy, and these longer sessions allow for deeper exploration and meaningful growth.
There is certainly no guarantee as every situation is different, but I can usually help couples make a lot of progress in 8 longer sessions. Once couples are on the right track, they often choose to continue meeting, but can space out the sessions even more.
Working with couples for longer sessions has been incredibly helpful. Most professionals try to work with couples in the usual 50-minute sessions every week. I have had extensive training and experience in RLT couples' relational skills and know that working with couples is very different than working with individuals. For that reason, I work in 100-minute sessions at a minimum.
Hedy Tan
CADC, CLC, PIT, ASAT, AMAT, APTT
RLT Certified Couples Therapist | RLT Facilitator | RLT Bootcamp Leader
Enmeshment Preferred Provider with Ken Adams (IITAP) | CCBRT Candidate - IITAP
I respond to requests for scheduling or rescheduling appointments as quickly as possible. Please save any therapeutic questions for our next session; I may not respond to all messages of that nature. I do read each message and keep track of questions and themes for our discussions. Please note that I do not provide 24-hour support or emergency crisis services. In case of an emergency, please call 911. Thank you for your understanding!
BACK BY POPULAR REQUESTS
2 DAY FOO TRAUMA WORKSHOP FOR COUPLES
based on the treatmemt model developed by Pia Mellody
"Survivors"
$3800 per couple $1900 per individual (minimum 2)
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ZOOM GUIDELINES
Please do not use AirPods or headphones during our Zoom sessions, as they can muffle sound clarity. Make sure to have a notepad and your folder with handouts available for our session. My professional time is specifically reserved for you. Please settle your account 48 hours prior to your appointment. Couple's Session Length: 1 session = 100 minutes PAYMENT OPTIONS
INFORMED CONSENT GUIDELINES / CHECKLIST FOR VIRTUAL SERVICES AGREEMENT
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You need to use a webcam or smartphone during the session.
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ENMESHMENT
What is Enmeshment? Enmeshment occurs when the boundaries between a parent and child are blurred, primarily serving the emotional needs of the parent rather than the child’s healthy development. Signs You May Be Enmeshed:
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